I’ve been contacted for help by the friends and loved ones of people involved in relationships with Losers (controlling and/or abusive partners).The loved ones want to understand the situation and ask for recommendations and guidance.Internet dating and just dating in general could be disastrous if you are not prepared.The online personals and blind date stories we have heard over the years are too funny and oftentimes too horrifying to believe.My girlfriend is coming over.” Let him live in his own filth, or clean it up!? This kind of big favor is okay occasionally, but if your guy asks it of you on a regular basis, you’re being taken advantage of. You’re not your boyfriend’s cab driver; you’re his girlfriend.How long has it been since your guy helped you achieve your peak in bed? Don’t make excuses to your friends for your guy when he acts antisocial. It’s that maternal instinct popping up: you see a helpless guy, stumbling around barely able to talk and you say, “I can help you! ” Or, perhaps you don’t think it’s “ladylike” of you to get drunk in front of your guy, so you always DD. Even though you’re a vegetarian, you make steak for your guy every time he comes over (which is a lot) and then on the side make yourself a vegetarian meal.My theory is that in the beginning, most women don’t know the guy is a deadbeat loser.He probably is reasonably attractive and tells a good story about his current situation and his ambitions.
But, if you put us on a leash, we’ll gnaw it off and go even more crazy once we’re free.
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This article was published to the Internet several years ago and was originally written to help identify “Losers” in relationships.
Finding true love is possible unless you are habitually hooked on the many nontraditional dating sites such as those for married men and women who cheat, sexual encounters sites, swingers websites or if you are simply out to meet a rich man or woman without a real commitment.
The proof can be found here by reading some of the worst date stories you ever heard!